How to Find (& Keep) a Gay Man

Matt Bays & Matt Heincker do a deep dive into what it takes to find (& keep) a gay man. While compassionate and sincere, these two gay besties provide bitchy wisdom for the gay man looking for love.

Love Styles
Apr 18, 2025 – 00:29:42
The Art of Conversation
Feb 28, 2025 – 00:31:20
Is Your Algorithm Keeping You Single?
Jan 31, 2025 – 00:33:53
You've Found Him...Several Times Actually
Oct 11, 2024 – 00:32:31
Red Flags & Green Lights
Sep 27, 2024 – 00:31:26
CHEATING
Aug 30, 2024 – 00:40:43
Remaining Hopeful While Waiting for Love
Aug 16, 2024 – 00:31:08
How to Create a Supportive Community
Jul 12, 2024 – 00:29:07
Four Toxic Relationship Patterns
Jun 14, 2024 – 00:35:17
Navigating Bridge Relationships (A Path to Self-Awareness)
May 10, 2024 – 00:33:00
Oh, Love That Will Not Let Me Go
Apr 26, 2024 – 00:37:59
WE ARE BACK! (Season 2)
Apr 12, 2024 – 00:37:12
Balancing Independence & Togetherness
Aug 24, 2023 – 00:47:08
The Aging Queen
Aug 10, 2023 – 00:43:26
PART 3 - The Lord is My Shepherd and She Knows I'm Gay
Jul 27, 2023 – 00:44:57
PART 2 - The Lord is My Shepherd and She Knows I'm Gay
Jul 20, 2023 – 00:40:07
PART 1 - The Lord is My Shepherd and She Knows I’m Gay
Jul 13, 2023 – 00:42:03
Chosen Family
Jun 29, 2023 – 00:34:38
Toxic Masculinity
Jun 22, 2023 – 00:39:13
IT'S PRIDE, BITCHES! (What is Your Gay Superpower?)
Jun 8, 2023 – 00:32:39
The Power of Forgiveness
May 25, 2023 – 00:49:00
Bids for Attention
May 18, 2023 – 00:36:34
The Art of Intimacy
May 11, 2023 – 00:45:26
Keeping it Spicy
May 4, 2023 – 00:39:41
Body-Ody-Ody (Part 2): BFF or Frenemy? Self-Love or Self-Loathe?
Apr 27, 2023 – 00:39:15
Body-Ody-Ody (Part 1): Learning to Love Our Bodies as They Are
Apr 20, 2023 – 00:38:51
The Power of Therapy: How Doing the Work Can Change Your Life
Apr 13, 2023 – 00:45:54
Situationships
Apr 6, 2023 – 00:37:07
Open Relationships: Blessing or Curse?
Mar 30, 2023 – 00:43:24
Flirting: The Good, the Bad, & the Ugly
Mar 23, 2023 – 00:49:16
The Do's and Don'ts of Gay Dating
Mar 16, 2023 – 00:45:39
That Episode Where Our Therapist Showed Up and Answered All of Our Gay Questions
Mar 9, 2023 – 00:57:40
Shame
Mar 2, 2023 – 00:49:15
Better Together (Part 2)
Feb 23, 2023 – 00:46:02
Breakups (Part 1)
Feb 16, 2023 – 00:43:04
Art Thou Ready to Receive?
Feb 9, 2023 – 00:41:24
What's in Your Way?
Feb 3, 2023 – 00:43:26
Pro Tips for Dating App Profiles
Jan 26, 2023 – 00:44:01
Soulmates
Jan 19, 2023 – 00:45:40
Pilot Episode
Jan 10, 2023 – 00:42:15

Recent Reviews

lashilashman

Blessing

This podcast has blessed my life beyond measure! My cup is filling up and looking to run over.
Walls Down Ministry

Deep and Humerous

So many queer podcasts are either funny or have good content. This is the rarity that contains both. These 2 guys give so much vision for queer ppl who want something more in life and in love. The only time I’m disappointed when listening to this podcast is when I’m at the end and have to wait another week for the next episode. Good stuff guys! Keep going!
JF$89

10/10

Honest and heartfelt, thoughtful and authentic. Can’t recommend enough! Binged all the episodes in a week! If you’re a gay man who is serious and ready for love, this is for you. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
BrokenBilly

Thank you

I found your podcast because I searched gay break up and now I am hooked. You’re exactly what I need at this time and I think your advice and your banter is spot on for someone looking for a healthy gay relationship. Thank you so much for not making this about hooking up but about actual loving relationships. Five stars all the way.